Stage of Love - Long Distance Relationship
"Real Love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them. Knowing their flaw and accept who they are"
No one can understand what is love? but when it happen then heart is feeling something different only one thing that your heart wants happiness for your partner only that smile will last you up to death. But in every relationship there is some up and down after sometime but whenever both are together only one thing happen " Love".
In many relationship distance major problem for breakup. whenever you come under that situation when you will moving different locations then it will realize you the real importance of your partner but this will not work so long after months or years of your separation some clashes, fight. This is common for those couple who live in different locations.
In the long distance relationship only phone calls and messages connect you together. Time that word change everything your care, importance, attraction. and many more things because you both will be busy in your own works this make less talking and you give your partner so less time on calling or messages and you also met new peoples and friends. If you are living only for few years like 2 or 3 years separate than it not much affect your relationship but if your will be lived more than 3 or 4 years that make your love so hard and the trust also become less only the main thing will stick you together Love. Love has extraordinary powers and the feel that will give you new life and finding true love in the world is so different. But true love still in the world.
Actually love is so strong no matter how much you fight and the distance between you only if your love is really true. But many relationship lost their true love and also distance between you and your partner may be make your importance less. So what you will do for making your long distance relationship more better? How you will manage all the happening in your life without losing your love?
There are some ways that helps you to make your long distance relationship work:
1. Communicate regularly:
Start your day with greet each other " Good Morning " and " Good night" every day- this is must. And tell everything what is happening in your life how's your day share everything and all happening this will feel you the real importance of your partner. Send each other picture, audio clips, short videos from time to time. Doing all this thing, you will make other person feel loved and attended to.
2. Do thing Together:
Sing to each other on Video chatting. Take a walk together outside while video-calling each other. Play online game together. Go online shopping together and many more thing that you both can do together.
3. Stay positive
You have to be constantly injecting positive energy into the long distance relationship to keep it alive.
Definitely, The waiting can be so painful and you can sometimes feel lonesome but you need to remind yourself that the fruits at the end will be sweet as heaven. One good trick to staying positive is to be grateful all the time. Be thankful that you have someone to love - Someone who also loves you back. Be thankful that you have someone to love for the little things, like the hand-made letter that arrived safely in your mailbox the other day. Be thankful for each other's health and safety.
4. Learn each other schedule
This is important to know the other person is busy and when she/he is free, so you can drop a text or make a call. you don't have to disturb your partner in the middle of class or halfway through a business meeting. Know the big and small events that are taking place or will take place in each other's life e.g. college mid-terms and exams, important business trips and meetings, job interviews and etc.
5. Be honest with each other
Talk about your feelings of fear, insecurity, jealousy, apathy, whatever. If you try to hide anything from your partner, that secret will sooner or later swallow you up from inside out. Let your partner help you and give you the support you need. This is important to look at the problem during its initial stage.
6. Goal in your mind
“What do we want to achieve at the end of the day?” “How long are we going to be apart?” “What about the future?” These are the questions you two need to ask yourselves. The truth is, no couple can be in a long distance relationship for forever. Eventually we all need to settle down.
So make a plan with each other. Do up a timeline, marking down the estimated times apart and times together, and draw an end goal. It is important that you two are on the same page and have the same goals. So that even if you are not living in the same space and the same timezone, both of you are still working together in the same direction towards a future that includes one another.
6. Video call whenever possible
This is important to video call whenever possible because it help you to know the emotion and feeling of your partner.
7. Make some pet name for each other
Give some cute pet name and call with pet names.
8. Not necessary Excessive talk
Many couples thoughts talk 12 hours a day is necessary to work long distance relationship unfortunately this is bad to talk mostly hours because make your love less and you would get tired of " loving". Less talk is more love. Only when you both are free and have nothing to do then you have to talk and share the things what you have done in your whole day. Don't call or text after some hours it also creates irritation in your relationship. Whenever you are talking just talk politely and make his/her to feel your importance.
"Long distance relationship is really so difficult and it is so painful but one thing is good if you cross this time then your Love will be unstoppable and it only increase when you are Physically together."
9. Get some ground rules to manage your expectations
You both have to clear what you expect from each other during this long distance relationship. Make some ground rules so that none of you will do things that will take other party by surprise. Understanding of each other in relationship is must you have to understand what other person wants from me and which behavior hurts other person. And you have to tell all the things that hurts you.
10. Make visits to each other
Visits is highlight in long distance relationship. You should have to meet whenever you are free go to other person place and make his/her surprise. Walk together, watch movie, spend some time together alone. Hold each other tightly. After all you finally get to meet each other so make that time so special and fulfill small things kissing, hugs and holding hands.
"Long distance relationship is really so difficult and it is so painful but one thing is good if you cross this time then your Love will be unstoppable and it only increase when you are Physically together."
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